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How to Choose a Nursing Home: The 25-Point Checklist
Choosing a nursing home is one of the most important decisions your family will make. This evidence-based guide walks you through the entire process — from initial research to move-in day — with a printable 25-point checklist so nothing gets overlooked.
Quick Answer
To choose the right nursing home, start by researching facilities on Medicare's Care Compare tool and reviewing state inspection reports. Create a shortlist of 3–5 facilities based on location, star ratings, and the specific medical needs of your loved one. Schedule in-person tours at different times of day and use our 25-point checklist below to evaluate staff quality, safety, resident life, medical services, and administrative transparency. Trust your instincts — if something feels off during a visit, it probably is.
Why Choosing the Right Nursing Home Matters
More than 1.3 million Americans currently reside in nursing homes, and that number continues to rise as the population ages. A nursing home is not just a care facility — it becomes your loved one's home. The quality of that home has a direct and measurable impact on health outcomes, emotional well-being, and overall quality of life.
Research published in the Journal of the American Geriatrics Society consistently shows that facilities with higher staffing levels and lower staff turnover deliver significantly better outcomes, including fewer falls, lower rates of pressure ulcers, reduced hospitalizations, and better management of chronic conditions. Conversely, facilities with staffing shortages and poor oversight have been linked to higher rates of neglect, medication errors, and preventable infections.
The emotional toll matters, too. Residents in well-run nursing homes report higher levels of satisfaction, maintain more social connections, and experience less depression and anxiety. Family members also experience reduced stress and guilt when they feel confident in the care being provided.
The bottom line: choosing the right nursing home is not a decision to rush. The time you invest in research, visits, and evaluation will directly influence the quality of care and the daily experience your loved one has. This guide is designed to make that process as thorough and manageable as possible. If you are still exploring which type of care is the best fit, start with our Elder Care Guide, read about when it is time for assisted living, or take our Care Type Quiz for a personalized recommendation.
Step 1: Research Online
Before you visit a single facility, invest a few hours in online research. The internet offers powerful, free tools that can help you quickly identify the strongest candidates and eliminate facilities that do not meet basic standards. Here are the three most valuable starting points:
CMS Care Compare
The Medicare Care Compare website, maintained by the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), is the gold standard for nursing home research. It provides overall star ratings (1 to 5 stars), detailed health inspection results, staffing data, and quality-of-care metrics for every Medicare- and Medicaid-certified nursing home in the country. Start here to get a data-driven overview of every facility in your area. Pay special attention to the health inspection rating, which reflects the results of the most recent on-site surveys and complaint investigations.
State Inspection Reports
Every state conducts its own nursing home inspections, and these reports are public record. State reports often contain more detailed narratives than the federal summaries on Care Compare. Look for the full inspection report (sometimes called a "survey" or "statement of deficiencies") on your state's Department of Health website. These reports describe specific violations, how severe they were, whether they were isolated or widespread, and what corrective actions the facility took. A pattern of repeated violations in the same area — such as infection control or medication management — is a serious concern that a simple star rating may not convey.
Online Reviews and Community Feedback
While no single online review should make or break your decision, reading reviews across multiple platforms — Google, Yelp, and senior care directories like NearbyElderCare — gives you a useful window into the daily resident experience. Look for recurring themes rather than individual complaints. If multiple reviews mention the same issue (slow response times, poor food quality, staff rudeness), take note. Also consider how the facility responds to negative reviews — a thoughtful, professional response indicates accountability, while silence or defensiveness can be a warning sign.
Step 2: Create a Shortlist
After completing your initial research, narrow your list to 3–5 nursing homes that you will visit in person. Trying to evaluate too many facilities at once leads to decision fatigue and makes it harder to compare meaningfully. Use these three criteria to build your shortlist:
Location and Proximity
Choose facilities within a reasonable driving distance for the family members and friends who will visit most frequently. Regular visits are one of the strongest predictors of resident well-being and one of the best safeguards against neglect. A facility that is 20 minutes away will almost certainly receive more visits than one that is 90 minutes away. Use our nursing home directory to browse facilities near you by city and state.
Specialties and Services
Make sure the facility can meet your loved one's specific medical and personal needs — now and in the foreseeable future. If your loved one has Alzheimer's or dementia, look for a nursing home with a dedicated memory care unit. If they need dialysis, ventilator care, wound care, or rehabilitation therapy, confirm the facility offers those services on-site or has reliable arrangements with nearby providers. Also consider dietary needs, language preferences, and any cultural or religious accommodations that matter to your family.
Insurance and Payment Accepted
Confirm that the facility accepts your loved one's insurance — whether that is Medicare, Medicaid, a long-term care insurance policy, Veterans Affairs benefits, or private pay. Many families do not realize that Medicare only covers nursing home stays for a limited time (up to 100 days following a qualifying hospital stay) and only for skilled care, not long-term custodial care. Medicaid eligibility rules and coverage vary by state. Understanding the payment landscape upfront prevents financial surprises later. If cost is a major concern, check out our FAQ page for more information about funding options and financial assistance programs.
The 25-Point Nursing Home Checklist
Use this checklist during every in-person visit. We recommend printing it out or saving it on your phone so you can score each facility consistently. The checklist is organized into five categories, each with five evaluation points. For each item, note whether the facility meets, partially meets, or does not meet the standard.
1 Staff & Care Quality
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1. Staffing Ratios
Ask about the resident-to-staff ratio on each shift, including nights and weekends. The CMS recommends a minimum of 0.75 RN hours per resident per day, but higher is better. Facilities that exceed this threshold consistently deliver better care outcomes. Compare the facility's reported ratios with state and national averages available on Care Compare.
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2. RN Availability
Federal law requires a registered nurse (RN) on duty at least 8 hours per day, but the best facilities have RN coverage around the clock. Ask whether an RN is physically present 24/7 or only on call during certain hours. Having a skilled nurse immediately available can make a critical difference in emergencies and complex medical situations.
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3. Staff Turnover Rate
High staff turnover is one of the most reliable indicators of systemic problems within a nursing home. When staff leave frequently, residents receive inconsistent care from people who do not know their histories, preferences, or needs. Ask the administrator directly about their annual turnover rate. Rates above 50% should raise concerns; rates above 75% are a red flag. CMS now publishes turnover data on Care Compare.
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4. Training and Continuing Education
Ask what training programs the facility provides beyond the state-mandated minimum. Look for ongoing education in dementia care, fall prevention, wound care, infection control, and de-escalation techniques. Facilities that invest in staff development tend to have more competent, confident, and compassionate caregivers. Ask whether CNAs receive specialized training for the specific conditions of the residents they serve.
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5. Staff Responsiveness
During your visit, observe how quickly staff respond to call lights and resident requests. Time it if possible — a response within 5 minutes is good, and anything beyond 10 minutes is cause for concern. Watch how staff interact with residents: do they make eye contact, address residents by name, and speak respectfully? The way staff treat residents when they think no one is watching tells you the most.
2 Safety & Cleanliness
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6. General Cleanliness
Walk through common areas, hallways, dining rooms, and at least one resident room. Floors should be clean and dry, surfaces should be free of dust and grime, and bathrooms should be well maintained. Pay attention to details: stained carpets, peeling paint, broken furniture, and overflowing trash cans all signal a lack of attention to the facility environment. A clean building reflects the overall quality of management.
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7. Odor Assessment
Use your nose. A persistent smell of urine or feces — not a brief, isolated incident but a building-wide odor — indicates inadequate hygiene practices and insufficient staffing for personal care. Some facilities use air fresheners to mask odors, so pay attention to whether the air smells artificially perfumed. A well-managed facility should smell clean and neutral in most areas most of the time.
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8. Safety Features
Check for handrails in hallways and bathrooms, grab bars in showers, non-slip flooring, adequate lighting (especially at night), and accessible emergency exits. Resident rooms should have working call buttons within reach of the bed and bathroom. Look for fall-prevention measures such as bed alarms for high-risk residents and clear, uncluttered pathways. If the facility has a memory care unit, verify that exits are secured and monitored.
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9. Infection Control Practices
Observe whether staff follow basic infection control protocols: hand-washing or sanitizer use before and after resident contact, proper use of gloves, and isolation procedures when necessary. Ask about the facility's infection prevention program, their vaccination policies for staff and residents, and their track record during recent flu seasons or outbreaks. Infection control has become a critical metric since the COVID-19 pandemic exposed weaknesses in many facilities.
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10. Emergency Procedures
Ask the facility to explain their emergency preparedness plan. This should cover fire evacuation, severe weather, power outages, medical emergencies, and elopement (residents leaving without authorization). Ask how often they conduct drills and whether the plan has been activated in the past. A well-prepared facility will have written plans, trained staff, and backup systems such as generators and emergency medication supplies.
3 Resident Life
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11. Activities and Engagement Programs
Review the monthly activities calendar. A strong program offers a variety of group and individual activities every day, including physical exercise, arts and crafts, music therapy, religious services, social outings, and cognitive stimulation programs. Ask whether activities are tailored to different ability levels and interests. Watch for signs of engagement during your visit: are residents participating, or are they sitting idle in front of a television? Meaningful activity is directly linked to better mental health outcomes.
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12. Outdoor Access
Access to outdoor space is more than a luxury — research shows it improves mood, reduces agitation, and supports better sleep. Look for secure gardens, patios, or walking paths that residents can use safely and regularly. Ask whether staff actively help residents get outside or whether outdoor access requires family assistance. The best facilities integrate outdoor time into their daily programming.
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13. Dining Quality
If possible, schedule your visit during a meal so you can observe the dining experience firsthand. Evaluate the food quality, variety, and presentation. Are residents offered choices? Are special diets (diabetic, low-sodium, pureed, cultural or religious preferences) accommodated? Is the dining room pleasant and well-staffed? Malnutrition is a common problem in poorly run facilities, and meal quality is one of the most visible indicators of overall care standards.
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14. Personal Space and Privacy
Examine the resident rooms. Are they reasonably spacious, well-lit, and comfortable? Can residents bring personal belongings such as photographs, small furniture, or bedding? Is there adequate closet and storage space? Are shared rooms separated by curtains or dividers that provide meaningful privacy? Do residents have control over basic aspects of their environment, such as lighting and temperature? Dignity and autonomy in one's living space contribute significantly to quality of life.
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15. Visiting Hours and Family Involvement
Federal regulations give residents the right to receive visitors at any reasonable hour. Ask the facility about their visiting policy and whether family members can visit unannounced. Look for facilities that actively encourage family involvement through care conferences, family councils, and open communication with nursing staff. Restrictive visiting policies — outside of legitimate public health emergencies — can be a warning sign that the facility has something to hide.
4 Medical Services
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16. On-Site Physician Coverage
Ask how often a physician visits the facility and whether residents are seen regularly or only when a problem arises. Some nursing homes have medical directors who are on-site multiple days per week, while others rely on physicians who visit only once or twice a month. More frequent physician presence leads to faster diagnosis, better chronic disease management, and fewer unnecessary emergency room transfers. Ask whether your loved one can keep their current primary care physician or must switch to the facility's provider.
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17. Pharmacy Services
Find out how medications are managed and dispensed. Most nursing homes contract with a long-term care pharmacy that delivers medications in pre-packaged doses. Ask about medication administration procedures, how medication errors are tracked and reported, and whether a pharmacist reviews each resident's medication regimen on a regular basis. Polypharmacy (the use of many medications simultaneously) is a significant risk in older adults, and a good facility will have systems to minimize this risk.
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18. Therapy and Rehabilitation Services
Determine whether physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech-language pathology services are available on-site. On-site therapy is far more convenient and typically results in better participation and outcomes than off-site arrangements. Ask about the qualifications of the therapy staff, the therapy schedules, and how therapy goals are set and communicated to families. If your loved one is recovering from surgery or a stroke, robust rehabilitation services are essential.
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19. Specialist Access
Ask how the facility arranges access to medical specialists such as cardiologists, neurologists, podiatrists, psychiatrists, and dentists. Some nursing homes bring specialists in for regular on-site visits, while others require residents to travel to outside offices. Confirm who arranges transportation for off-site appointments and who accompanies the resident. If your loved one has complex medical needs, reliable specialist access is non-negotiable.
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20. Hospital Transfer Protocols
Understand the facility's protocol for when a resident needs to be transferred to a hospital. Ask which hospitals they typically use, how quickly a transfer can be arranged, and how they communicate with the hospital and the family during the process. Also ask about their readmission process: when a resident returns from a hospital stay, how do they ensure continuity of care, updated medication orders, and a smooth transition back into the facility?
5 Administrative
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21. Licensing and Certification
Verify that the facility holds a current state license and is certified by Medicare and Medicaid. These certifications mean the facility has met federal and state quality standards and is subject to regular inspections. Ask to see the most recent inspection report and any plans of correction. If a facility is not Medicare/Medicaid certified, find out why — and proceed with extra caution.
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22. Inspection Results and Deficiency History
Review the facility's inspection history for the past three years. Look at both the number and the severity of deficiencies cited. Every facility will have some deficiencies — that is normal. What matters is the pattern: are deficiencies minor and isolated, or are there repeated citations for the same serious problems? Federal regulations categorize deficiencies by scope (isolated, pattern, widespread) and severity (minimal harm, actual harm, immediate jeopardy). Steer clear of any facility with "immediate jeopardy" citations in recent history.
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23. Costs and Billing Transparency
Get a complete, written breakdown of all costs before signing anything. For a full picture of how nursing home costs compare with other care types, see our article on the true cost of elder care in 2026. Ask what is included in the base daily or monthly rate and what services incur additional charges. Common add-ons include medications, therapy, personal supplies, laundry, cable television, and transportation. Ask about rate increase policies: how often do rates go up, and by how much? Understand what happens financially if your loved one's care needs increase over time and require more intensive (and expensive) services.
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24. Contract Terms
Read the admission contract thoroughly before signing. If possible, have an elder law attorney review it. Key provisions to scrutinize include: arbitration clauses (which may limit your right to sue), responsible party provisions (which should not require a family member to be personally liable for charges), notice requirements for rate changes, and the facility's obligations if your loved one's insurance changes. Never sign a contract under time pressure — a reputable facility will give you adequate time to review and ask questions.
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25. Discharge and Transfer Policies
Understand under what circumstances the facility may discharge or transfer your loved one. Federal law provides strong protections: a nursing home can only discharge a resident for specific reasons (such as non-payment, the facility closing, or the resident's needs exceeding what the facility can provide) and must give at least 30 days' written notice. Ask the facility to walk you through their discharge policy and appeal process. Knowing your rights in advance gives you leverage if problems arise later.
Red Flags to Watch For
During your research and visits, stay alert for these warning signs. Any single red flag may have an explanation, but multiple red flags together should steer you away from a facility — no matter how attractive the brochure looks.
- Persistent unpleasant odors. A facility-wide smell of urine or feces that is not quickly addressed suggests chronically inadequate personal care and staffing shortages.
- Residents left unattended for extended periods. If you see residents calling out for help, sitting in soiled clothing, or left alone in hallways for long stretches, the facility is not meeting basic care needs.
- Staff avoiding your questions or being evasive. A reputable nursing home will be transparent about staffing, inspection results, and costs. If administrators deflect direct questions or discourage you from speaking with current residents and families, take that seriously.
- High staff turnover or constant use of agency staff. Ask the administrator about their turnover rate and whether they rely heavily on temporary staffing agencies. Temporary staff do not know the residents and cannot provide the continuity of care that long-term employees can.
- Restricted visiting hours without a valid health-related reason. Federal law guarantees nursing home residents the right to receive visitors. Facilities that unreasonably limit visits may be trying to prevent families from observing daily conditions.
- Unexplained injuries on current residents. During your visit, observe the residents. Visible bruises, cuts, or skin tears that staff cannot or will not explain may indicate neglect or abuse.
- Poor food quality or residents not receiving adequate nutrition. If residents appear underweight, if trays are returned untouched, or if the food you see served during your visit looks unappetizing and nutritionally poor, the facility may be cutting corners on one of the most fundamental aspects of care.
- Lack of meaningful activities. Residents parked in front of a television with no organized activities, no engagement, and no stimulation is a hallmark of a facility that views residents as patients to be managed rather than people to be cared for.
- Recent "immediate jeopardy" citations. An immediate jeopardy citation means state inspectors found conditions that caused or were likely to cause serious injury or death. While a single citation followed by swift corrective action may be forgivable, a pattern of serious citations should be disqualifying.
- Pressure to sign the contract quickly. A high-pressure sales approach — "We only have one bed left" or "This rate is only available today" — is a tactic, not a fact. A facility that respects families gives them the time they need to make an informed decision.
Questions to Ask During a Visit
Come prepared with a list of questions. Speaking directly with the administrator, director of nursing, and front-line staff will reveal far more than any website or brochure can. Here are the essential questions to ask, organized by who you should ask:
Ask the Administrator
- What is your current occupancy rate, and how long is the typical wait list?
- What is your annual staff turnover rate for CNAs, LPNs, and RNs?
- How do you handle complaints from residents and families?
- Can you share your most recent state inspection report and any plans of correction?
- What are your policies on visiting hours and family involvement in care planning?
- What additional costs should we expect beyond the base rate?
Ask the Director of Nursing
- What is the nurse-to-resident ratio on day, evening, and night shifts?
- How are care plans developed, and how often are they updated?
- How do you manage medications and prevent medication errors?
- What is your protocol for falls, and how do you track fall incidents?
- How are families notified of changes in a resident's condition?
- Do you have specialized programs for dementia, wound care, or palliative care?
Ask Current Residents and Families
- Are you happy with the care you (or your loved one) receive here?
- How responsive is the staff when you need help or have a concern?
- What do you like most about this facility? What would you change?
- Do you feel your concerns are heard and addressed by management?
- Would you recommend this facility to a friend in a similar situation?
Understanding CMS Star Ratings
The CMS Five-Star Quality Rating System is the most widely referenced tool for comparing nursing homes. Understanding what the ratings actually measure — and what they do not — helps you use them more effectively.
The Three Rating Components
Health Inspections (most important)
Based on the three most recent annual inspection surveys and any complaint investigations conducted in between. This rating reflects what state surveyors actually observed during on-site visits. It is widely considered the most reliable component because it is based on direct observation, not self-reported data.
Staffing
Based on the total number of hours of care provided by nurses and other staff per resident per day. CMS uses payroll-based data submitted by facilities. While this measure has improved in accuracy since the transition to electronic payroll reporting, it still represents an average and may not reflect staffing on any given day, especially weekends and holidays.
Quality Measures (QMs)
Based on clinical data that facilities report about their residents, including rates of falls, pressure ulcers, urinary tract infections, use of physical restraints, and use of antipsychotic medications. While useful, these measures are self-reported by the facilities themselves and may not always be fully accurate.
How to Use Star Ratings Wisely
- Use star ratings as a starting point for narrowing your search, not as a final verdict.
- Focus most heavily on the health inspection rating, as it is based on direct observation.
- Look at the individual component ratings, not just the overall star count. A facility with 4 stars overall but 2 stars for health inspections deserves closer scrutiny.
- Click through to the detailed inspection reports on Care Compare. The narrative descriptions of deficiencies are more informative than the star rating alone.
- Remember that star ratings are relative — they compare facilities against each other, not against an absolute standard of excellence. A 5-star facility is better than most, not necessarily perfect.
- Star ratings can change after every inspection cycle. Check the date of the most recent rating update to make sure the data is current.
After You Choose: The Transition Plan
Once you have selected a nursing home, the transition itself requires careful planning. Moving into a nursing home is one of the most significant life changes a person can experience. A thoughtful, well-organized transition can reduce anxiety, ease adjustment, and set the stage for a positive experience. Here is a step-by-step approach:
1. Prepare the Paperwork
Gather all required documents well in advance of move-in day: medical records, a current medication list, insurance cards, power of attorney documents, advance directives (living will, healthcare proxy), and a copy of the signed admission agreement. Provide the facility with emergency contact information and the names and phone numbers of all physicians involved in your loved one's care. Complete all financial arrangements, including Medicaid applications if applicable.
2. Personalize the Room
Bring items from home that provide comfort and familiarity: family photographs, a favorite blanket or pillow, a beloved book, a clock, or small decorative items. Familiar surroundings help reduce disorientation, especially for individuals with cognitive impairment. Check with the facility about what items are allowed and any size or safety restrictions. Label all personal belongings, including clothing, with your loved one's name.
3. Meet the Care Team
Schedule a meeting with the director of nursing, the assigned social worker, and the primary CNA (certified nursing assistant) who will be providing daily care. Share specific information about your loved one's preferences, routines, likes and dislikes, communication style, and anything else that will help staff provide personalized care from day one. This initial care conference is your opportunity to establish expectations and build a relationship with the team.
4. Plan for the First Two Weeks
The first two weeks are the most critical adjustment period. Visit frequently — daily if possible — to provide emotional support, monitor how your loved one is adapting, and observe how staff are responding to their needs. Be patient: it is normal for new residents to experience sadness, anxiety, confusion, or even anger during the transition. Encourage participation in activities and meals, but do not force it. If you notice significant problems, address them promptly with the director of nursing or social worker.
5. Stay Engaged for the Long Term
Your involvement should not stop after the first two weeks. Attend quarterly care plan meetings, join the family council if one exists, and maintain regular communication with the nursing staff. Visit at varying times and on different days of the week to get a complete picture of the care being provided. If you have concerns at any point, document them in writing and address them through the facility's grievance process. If issues are not resolved internally, contact your state's Long-Term Care Ombudsman program for free, confidential assistance. For more tips and guidance, explore our blog and resources section.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Sources
- Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS). Nursing Home Quality Initiative. Information on quality standards, star ratings, and inspection processes for nursing homes.
- Medicare.gov. Care Compare: Nursing Homes. Official tool for finding and comparing Medicare- and Medicaid-certified nursing homes by location, rating, and quality measures.
- National Long-Term Care Ombudsman Resource Center. ltcombudsman.org. Advocates for the rights of residents in long-term care facilities and provides free assistance to residents and families.
- U.S. Department of Health & Human Services. Administration for Community Living. Federal resources on aging, disability, and long-term care services.
- National Institute on Aging (NIA). Residential Facilities, Assisted Living, and Nursing Homes. Consumer-friendly guide to understanding and evaluating long-term care options.
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